Hi Dawn... I'm not sure if you are the oldest member (I'd have to dig through the database to find out), but you're probably the oldest active member.
I understand about real world obligations... Those seem to have hit Mythos Tomes staff members as well. (Myself included.)
As to the number of posts, don't worry, I don't have as many as I should either. I think right now Niels is leading the pack with 30 posts (Which qualifies him as a Cult Leader), followed by Theo, who has 28. I think we can still catch up with them, though.
I hope to see more of you around the forum.